It doesn’t matter that there are plenty more fish in the sea.
It doesn’t matter how many emails you get from people interested in getting to know you.
It doesn’t matter if the hottest person in the world is throwing themselves at you, if they’re your soulmate, dream man… think, even sex dating from www.black121chat.co.uk needs to get over it too.
If you’re still hung up on your ex. So, in order to help you move on and move up in the dating world, we’re here to help you get over your ex and get back out there…by leaving him in the dust.
Yep, we aren’t sugar coating it-Make him disappear. Ok, not literally-no matter how much you wish you could sometimes, you don’t have that kind of power. I’m talking about all the constant reminders of them you have laying around-photos, gifts, ticket stubs from the first concert you went to together, the sweatshirt that smells like him. You don’t need to be drastic and burn it, but you do need to do a good old fashioned purge. Think of it this way-by getting rid of all that stuff, you’re making room for new things to come take it’s place. It’s difficult to get over someone when things that remind you of them are everywhere you look. Plus, while getting over someone isn’t necessarily about getting under someone else (although, it can help) being a walking shrine to your old relationship isn’t exactly attractive to your new potential dates using sex meet.
What you need to do
Feel better? This is you claiming your space, and it should feel powerful. This next part is even better…and harder. I’m a firm believer that people can stay friends after their romantic relationship ends, but that there needs to be some time and space first. And that includes social media. It’s easy to say you won’t hang out with someone in person, but what about all the “hanging out” you do online? The creeping of their facebook pages, the tweeting, the all access pass to whats going on in their lives? Being so closely bound with someone isn’t space, and it ties you down-you don’t need to be concerned with who that girl posting on his wall is…you should be channeling that energy into the guys posting on yours.
Remember that it’s temporary-once you’ve re-established yourself as an individual, then you can be gchat and coffee buddies. Until then, put all of his stuff in a box and delete him from your friends lists. Sounds harsh, but you’ll thank me later. xo